Are You a Good Candidate for Speed Dating

By Arthur Bertinus

people3These days, speed dating is gaining in popularity. People have turned to alternative ways to meet the person of their dreams.  This is often the case when other traditional methods do not result in successful matches. This is when speed dating starts to look pretty good, to say the least.

Speed dating is a good way find a date.  These meetings are very organized. Usually, you will not have to worry about your safety or be embarrassed to attend. Remember, that everyone else is there for the same reason that you are. The romanticized individualization of the marriage relationship has also led to dramatic changes in how you find your future partner.

Everyone is searching for someone to spend their life with
Unfortunately, when you go to other meeting places such as nightclubs and bars, there tends to be confusion and doubt as to whether others are there for the same reasons that you are. Not to mention you must also be highly concerned about your safety when frequenting these traditional pickup locations.

But don’t forget that you have to be careful when dating in any location. Be mindful of the [personal information] that you give out. Never provide info such as your date of birth or social security number. You do not want to have a stalker showing up at your home in the future.

As you can see, giving out the wrong info could put you into harm’s way.  It is okay to give out basic information that will not result in a dangerous outcome for yourself. Tell your date about the things that you like to do and what you want out of a real relationship.

Do your research before attending a speed dating session. First you need to find out [should a girl use online dating. Understand what goes on at these speed dating events. Check out a few of these locations by going online. Just search on speed dating and you will find a wealth of information to guide you.

dating5-1Study the guidelines and understand what needs to be done in order to remain safe
The best way to really take advantage of speed dating is to learn as much as you can about this popular alternative dating method. Search online and find speeding dating events within your local community. It is easy to find info such as when and where they take place. You can also find out if there are specific terms for a particular event.

One of the good things about speed dating is that people of all ages attend these events. Also, you will find people with many different personalities and backgrounds. This will give you plenty of opportunities to find a person that you will like. This does not necessarily mean that this will be THE person that you spend happily ever after with. However, there is the possibility that you will find someone that you can spend quality time with.

If you truly know what type of person will make you happy
Then attending a speed dating session might be the thing for you. Remember that there are other people looking for someone to spend time with too. It’s a possibility that you might be what they are looking for. But, they will never find you if you do not get out there.

Remember, it’s not what you say, it’s how you say it, it’s not what you see is how you see it. If you change the way you look at the other person and circumstances, the person and circumstances you look at some how will change. “You cannot change a man’s behavior. Change comes from within.” Oprah Winfrey.

Instead of jumping in and asking directly if he or she wants to date you exclusively, share  that you are thinking you might like to get off line and just date him and ask for his/her thoughts. Don’t interrupt and more importantly, it is always in the details that you’ll understand how to proceed. If the person doesn’t want to date exclusively after your first speed dating, don’t be discouraged.

Hold on now do not shed a tear because A new day has come. 

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